Recently a news was published which said that most men cheat on their partners only if they are guaranteed oral sex. While one does not necessarily agree with cheating in a partnership, a study says that oral sex is actually saving the sex lives of at least 20 percent of couples.
The study conducted by the State University of New York further states that most women find it hard to climax through classic full-on sex. Oral becomes an integral part in such cases to pleasure her.
But that is not all, the study also says that me n notoriously love receiving it too.
The study also found that there were surprising benefits in semen which contains mood altering chemicals like natural antidepressants.
However, knowing each other’s sexual history in such cases is of optimum importance.
Here are six things one needs to know about oral sex to make it that much more special.
Scientists found oral sex makes a couple feel more bonded. It’s such an intimate thing to do after all. That is perhaps one of the reasons, experts say that partners if swinging can have full penetrative sex, but no oral.
Does your partner back off from trying it? Two main reasons why men and women avoid it are fear the taste and hygiene issues, while others fear they will be bad at it. A sensual shower or bath before suggesting it always helps.
Washing machine technique does not help. Most complain that men who engage in oral sex do the ‘washing machine’ technique, where the tongue is stuck on spin cycle, going around, around, and around again on her clitoral zone. Variation usually helps.
Experiment more. Trying out different techniques actually do help where she gently takes his testicles in one hand while with the other she guides his penis into her mouth. He can also try another position where he uses his tongue and laps across her pubic mound and clitoral zone.
Trimming is important. People forget that trimming and ‘strimming’ their pubic hair is crucial to their partner being able to give pleasure.
Diet is important too! Never forget that what you eat affects what you taste like down below. This is not a myth! So if you eat, for example, salty or sweet you’ll taste salty or sweet.